Meeting new and exciting people can give you such an adrenaline rush. It can be as riveting as riding a brand new roller coaster at an amusement park, or finding the purse you have been stalking for months on the sale rack. A new name, a new face, a new contact. A new person to text daily events too, share thoughts, ideas, recipes, television shows you name it. The same ole restaurants and lounges where you know all the bartenders and waiters seem brand new and exclusive.
The downside of meeting a new and exciting person is when they don't turn out to be what you expected. There can be lots of reasons for this. The timing could be off, there could be a huge conflict of interest, passing of unfavorable words, thoughts, ideas, or beliefs you name it. The disappointment is as significant as the previous excitement. Its the equivalent of getting on the dance floor when your favorite song is playing, and having the DJ turn off the music. Lots of times there are no hard feelings...but something..you know the something that can't be named just happened. The something that always makes things go from right to wrong and vice versa. We all know what that something is right? Its called THE SOMETHING :-)
The "Something" causes people to find fault in the very thing that once excited them. It usually happens with people we just met and we can never fully describe the change in feelings, so we say.."something just wasnt right....somethng happened....Something made me not wanna hang out" etc etc etc. I wish I could interview THE SOMETHING and find out who the hell he/she/it really is! Have like an E! True Hollywood Store: The Something...ha!
I guess the best explanation I can give for "The Something" would be instinct or intuition. But at times the "something" can be appear shallow so who really knows. The "something" can make you miss out on an awesome new female buddy or a great romantic prospect. It can make you mistrust an otherwise trustworthy person. Maybe the something is fear. Fear of a situation actually turning out to be flawless. Maybe its the fear that this new situation will make you miss out on "something else" (see there it is again!)
I can go on about this all night, but SOMETHING is telling me to go to bed right now. LOL. Find out what the "Something" that is haunting you is all about. Know when to pay attention to it, and when to ignore it. Don' let something ruin your fun!
See ya!
Paper Bag Lady
Wednesday, February 27, 2008
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7 comments:
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welcome back...lol
LOL I've had a few of these "somethings" just run up on me and steal my thunder lmfao...as of right now the current something thats raining on my parade is timing...blah blah.
Interview this Something batch! lol
yeah well my "Something" has a name. LOL! but ill just call him my conscious for right now. **wink** but this is very true and right on time 2 be honest...
My something has been a few of the things you mentioned in your blog. At this point though, I am tired of "it," and am ready to embrace something new. (This must be 25 talking!)
Hmmm....something just threatened me to post here. :| j/k I agree with everything said...when you find out what 'something' is, please let me know! LOL
Awww, look at Al growing up!
The SOMETHING won't let me stop drinking coffee every morning :-)
My something is usually timing and of course the "it" factor or lack thereof!! LOL
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